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The Path to a Better Divorce
Why Do Couples Get Divorced?
The Reasons Marriages EndSometimes the relationship you once thought of as “only of your dreams” unfortunately turns out to be something different than what you expected. It is never easy to see a marriage dissolve, and it can feel worse when it’s happening to you. You may wonder where things went wrong or what could […]
Preparing for the Trauma of Divorce
These days, trauma is a hot-button issue. Psychology has become more aware of different types of trauma and their effects.Trauma is often associated with abuse. While the connection between the two is clear, not all trauma is the result of abuse. Sometimes, an abrupt shock can produce trauma symptoms. Anything from a sudden move to […]
Healing from the Trauma of Divorce
In Part 1 of this series, we offered preparation for the trauma you may experience in a divorce. We listed common experiences recent divorcees have after their divorce. Now that you’re aware of what you may experience, it’s time to discuss the next part: working through that trauma.Important note: This article is not meant to […]
Tips for Successful Summer Co-Parenting
Ensure a Great Summer for EveryoneSummer is officially upon us, and while children everywhere are either wrapping up their school activities or are already out for the season, co-parents may be filled with fear of how they will work through this challenging time of year. It can be difficult to figure out how to balance […]
How Much Visitation Can Grandparents Get?
Understanding Grandparent Visitation SchedulesHaving the opportunity to visit with and spend time with their young grandchildren is something that many grandparents value. Thankfully, even in situations where parents may attempt to deny access to grandchildren, the state of California provides opportunities for grandparents to request visitation rights. But exactly how often will you be allowed […]
How Do Paternity Tests Work?
Understanding Paternity Tests in CaliforniaEstablishing paternity can be valuable for a variety of reasons, but how do you go about getting a paternity test? In this blog post we’ll address the different types of paternity tests that are available and how these tests work. We will also answer common questions related to determining paternity in […]
Apps to Enhance Co-Parent Communication
The Tools for ImprovementIf you’re co-parenting, then you may have already learned that communication is key. You need to be able to coordinate schedules, share important information, and talk about how things are going —without arguments or confusion. Luckily, there are some great apps out there that can help make co-parent communication a breeze. Continue […]
What Should We Consider When Crafting Our Parenting Plan?
Allowing the court to make your divorce decisions is stressful. There is constant anxiety about what you will “win” or “lose,” and all choices are completely out of your hands. No matter how biased, unfair, or flat-out wrong, the court’s ruling must be obeyed.This fact is particularly worrisome when it comes to your children. The […]
Processing the Decision to Get a Divorce
4 Guiding Questions to Help Your ThinkingThe decision of whether or not to get a divorce is an incredibly difficult one and not one you should take lightly. If you are unsure of how to best process this decision, consider the following guiding questions to help your thinking.1. Are We Truly Communicating With Each Other?One […]
Creating a Child-Support Agreement with Your Spouse
When it comes to divorce, we often imagine long days spent in brown courtrooms. For many, this is the reality. However, you have more options than you may realize. You can, for instance, make any necessary decisions alongside your spouse. This keeps the power in your hands, bypassing the need to obey a court’s rulings.Many […]
Marital Agreements: Which Is Right for You?
Marital agreements go by many names. Most commonly, people are aware of “prenuptial agreements.” They can also be called martial contracts, prenuptial contracts, and many variations of those same words.When it comes to these agreements, you may have more options than you think. Specifically, the timing of the contract determines the type of contract you […]
I Disapprove of My Ex’s Parenting. What Can I Do?
Coparenting can be hard. It comes with a general loss of control. You can’t manage what happens to your kids when they are with your ex, and that can be hard for many parents to accept.Successful coparenting requires a lot of trust. Sometimes, that trust is broken, or it was never there to begin with. […]