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The Path to a Better Divorce
How Much Does Mediation Cost?
Saving Money And TimeOne of the more commonly asked questions about divorce mediation is related to the overall cost of the process. Many people typically assume that going to court for a divorce carries a larger chance of walking away with more, but they do not factor outside costs into their calculations.Mediation, on the other […]
Co-Parenting as COVID-19 Numbers Increase
Just as the world appeared to be getting back to normal, the COVID-19 pandemic came back with a vengeance. Another surge has hit, and the number of cases climbs. Additionally, the Delta variant has made the virus more contagious, and even vaccinated citizens have experienced “breakthroughs,” contracting the illness after receiving their shots.The response has […]
Staying Friends After a Divorce
At our firm, we always aspire to make a divorce as painless as possible. As our tagline states, we want “conversation, not war.” Our biggest hope is that the spouses can part not only amicably, but also as friends. We love hearing from our clients who report back and tell us that they were able […]
How Does Distance Affect Your Parenting Plan?
Creating a parenting plan is complicated. There are so many decisions to make, often down to the most minute details. When you include a long distance between parents, your plan becomes even more complex. If you and your former spouse live far apart, here are some things to consider in your parenting plan.Custody PercentagesCalifornia splits […]
Helping Your Child Through the Holidays Post-Divorce
Keeping the Brightness of the SeasonThe holiday season can be a time of struggle for children who are attempting to move on from their parents’ divorce. The emphasis on family gatherings coupled with the changes in their own family can make this time of year particularly difficult for them. What can parents do to help […]
What Adoptive Parents Must Consider Before Divorce
Adoption allows couples to build a family connection with a child who isn’t biologically their own. And, as any parent will tell you, the bond between parent and child is like no other. This can make divorce with children particularly difficult, whether biological or adoptive in natureThe good news: Adopted families follow the same protocols […]
How to Prepare for Mediation
There are several advantages to choosing mediation, including the fact that you have more control over the decision-making process and outcome. Additionally, the process is less stressful and can save you money. If you have decided to move forward with the process of mediation, you might be wondering how to prepare for your first session […]
How Long Do Most Marriages Last?
In the United States, the average marriage lasts for about 8.2 years, and the national divorce rate is 41%. According to statistics, Fatherly, and Verywell Mind, the first 2 years of a marriage are the most crucial – and the early days, months, and years of your marriage can help indicate how long you might […]
Complex Property Division: Navigating a Fair Settlement
Complex property division in a divorce is often one of the most contentious parts of the process. If you are going through a divorce, you are most likely concerned about the distribution of your property and how to distribute property and assets you acquired over the course of your marriage. At Alternative Divorce Solutions, our […]
Who Gets the Vacation House After a Divorce?
How Additional Properties Are Divided in California DivorcesIt’s becoming increasingly common for families to buy additional real estate in their favorite vacation spots. With each extra plot of land, however, comes another asset to be divided in divorce. The future of the home will depend on how the property was acquired and whether there are […]
The Benefits of Establishing Paternity
What Is a Paternity Action and Why Do I Need One?When a child is born to married parents, or to a father who is willing to sign a voluntary declaration of paternity, parentage goes unquestioned. However, in some cases, when a parent is unwilling to comply with voluntary admissions of paternity, actions are necessary.A paternity […]
Why Should You Consider a Marital Agreement?
Planning makes everything better. When you try to make decisions last minute, you tend to leave out important details. Attempting to solve something while you are doing it leads to mistakes.The same is true for a marriage. Marriage is, of course, about love. It is the union of two people who have chosen to become […]