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The Path to a Better Divorce
Divorce Isn’t Always the Result of a Catastrophic Event
We all know that there can be horrific betrayals in a relationship that lead to divorce. You could discover that your partner is a serial cheater. Maybe they fall into drugs or other self-destructive behaviors, and you need to walk away. At its worst, a relationship can become abusive, and ending it is a matter […]
What Are the Most Common Arguments Between Married Couples?
We know at Alternative Divorce Solutions that when you’re in a relationship, arguments can emerge about just about anything. According to Psychology Today, however, what do most couples fight about? It’s usually (6) different different things that couple’s argue about range from arguing about children and chores to criticizing annoying habits, the most common arguments between married […]
Everything You Need to Know About Creating a Parenting Plan
Divorce alone can be challenging, but going through a divorce with kids can be even harder. For parents trying to negotiate the terms of a divorce, it’s important to create a parenting plan. Plans should be well thought out and include different terms of separation. This way, neither parent is blindsided by the other’s attempt […]
Why an Uncontested Divorce may Be Right for You (& How to Get One in CA)
When most people hear the word "divorce," they picture something out of Marriage Story—an intense courtroom battle that ends in tears (and probably a lot of monologuing at a faceless judge). But that doesn’t have to be your only option.Choosing to pursue an out-of-court, uncontested divorce can help you resolve your marriage more peacefully, while […]
Tips for Negotiating During Mediation
If you’re engaged in mediation, it’s essential to understand how you can pursue your best interests without getting into unnecessary disputes with your soon-to-be-ex.To that end, understanding effective methods of negotiation can help you navigate mediation more confidently and get what you want out of the process when all’s said and done. Today, we’re exploring […]
Custody Decisions for Children with Special Needs
Divorce is never easy on children. Small kids may be confused as to what is happening, and teens can become angry and resentful about the changes in their family. These problems are exacerbated if the child has special needs.Special needs children require far more care and attention. There are many pragmatic aspects to consider when […]
Child Support Can Be a Privilege, Not a Chore
When it comes to divorce, it’s common to hear negative language. People talked about “losing” property or being “forced” to pay support. It’s easy to have that reaction, especially when your divorce was handled in court. The court makes its decisions without your input, and, by law, you must obey.There are aspects of divorce that […]
What Is the Process for a Summary Dissolution?
Summary dissolutions are a simplified separation approach for couples seeking an end to fairly new marriages in which they have yet to acquire a significant amount of community property or debt. It appeals to many unhappy newlyweds as it is generally cheaper, simpler, and faster than a standard divorce process.Qualifying for a Summary DissolutionA summary […]
Do I Need to Pay My Spouse’s Tax Debt?
Understanding What Is Considered Community Property and DebtWhen California couples divorce, their community assets and debts are typically divided equally between the two parties. These properties and dues are considered community if they were acquired during the marriage. Certain separate assets are exempt from such division if they were earned before the marriage or through […]
What Happens if I Refuse a Paternity Test?
Establishing paternity is necessary to protect each parent’s right to build a relationship with their child, as well as their access to child support and a fair child custody or visitation arrangement. Cooperation throughout the genetic testing process ensures that the matter can be handled swiftly. Failure to cooperate can lead to harsh punishments.Who Can […]
Reasons to Have a Postnuptial Agreement
Take Advantage of Your Second Chance to Protect Your PropertyPostnuptial agreements, much like prenups, give spouses an opportunity to protect their individual wealth. The document outlines how personal assets and property would be handled in the event of a divorce or death of a partner. Despite its unflattering reputation, a postnuptial agreement truly offers a […]
Why You Should Consider Mediation
If you’ve been researching what it takes to dissolve a marriage, the word "mediation" has probably come up now again. Today, mediation is one of the most popular ways to end a marriage, offering individuals a less stressful, cost-effective alternative to divorce.But is mediation right for you? Well, there’s only one way to find out. […]